Ok I donβt really know how to start this, but I guess the only way is to jump right in.When I was 18 my mom and dad got a divorce and it was not a smooth one, if there is such a thing. My father took of and basically left my mom and me with nothing. I never saw him again and I never wanted to. The problem was that it made my mom in to a man hater. I think that if at that time she could, she would have wiped the planet clean of all men.