Swinging is growing and quickly becoming more mainstream, once taboo of regarded as something that took place in the dark, more and more couples are turning to the lifestyle. What its not is a way for the guy to have sex with other women, its more about the mutual appreciation of being involved with the satisfaction of both parties.
The female in the relationship should feel absolutely no pressure to get involved in swinging and the relationship has to be based on trust and mutual respect.
Many individuals have fantasies and sharing these fantasies with your partner can be a great way to share some of the more intimate sensual experiences.
Take some time and write down your top 5 or top 18 fantasies and spend time sharing these one night. It can be an awaking experience to discuss some of your most intimate thoughts with your partner and you may be pleasantly surprised, you may even find yourself living out some of those fantasies.
Many women have common sexual fantasies and these can be incorporated into the swinging lifestyle. Swinging has grown from the back room and seedy club past into an open nightclub environment with people from all walks of life, professionals to tradespeople, young to old. And don’t just think its for people who cant socialize, in fact the lifestyle is suited to people who feel more at home socialising with others, are attractive and naturally open minded.
From those initial fantasy discussions, a couple can venture to a swingers club and meet and chat to other people there, no guarantees that anything will happen and for most, a visit to a club may result in some of your most sensual sexual experiences on the way home.